The Nollywood actor John Dumelo has shared is own view on how to treat a woman

He shared his views on his Instagram page.

Read below...

My view on how to treat women.
1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You
don't know what their husbands are going
through.
2. Never expose your wife's weakness to your
family or friends or run to them whenever you
have issues. Problems are best solved between
you and your woman.
3. Don't think you are man so you can use
intimidation, shout or violence to communicate
your moods. Aggressive men don't make a
happy home.
4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise
your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think
she is stupid.
5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every
to your woman.
6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of
the home everyday. She is swamped with house work
and helping you raise the kids.
7. Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends
and extended family.The wife and children are your
first responsibility.
8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure
should be considered before your own.
9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If
you loved them so much why didn't you marry them
instead of your wife.
10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in
front of the children. The children are watching. They
won't listen and obey her too.
11. Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know
she's looking normal. Women love compliment.
12. Don't forget that women also want attention and
someone to share their thougts with. Never be too
busy for your wife.
13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband.
Pray always for your wife and family. Don't leave the
prayers to your wife.
14.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her
shopping and once in a while, cook for her.
15.Please don't forget your these anniversary dates.
Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg
you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me
why). I also don't know.
16. Your mother should not have the final say in your
marriage. You married your wife, not you and your
mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.
17.There are 5 days each month that you have
to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and "I love you"
more than 7 times a day. That's when she's
menstrating.